🍼 10 Key Questions to Ask When Interviewing a Nanny

Finding the right nanny can feel overwhelming — after all, this person will play a big role in your child’s life and your family’s routine. At Elisa’s London Nannies, we personally interview every candidate before introducing them to families. But when it’s time for you to meet a nanny yourself, having the right questions on hand can make all the difference.

Here are 10 thoughtful, insightful questions every parent should ask during a nanny interview:

1. Can you tell me about your previous nanny experience?

Get a feel for their background — ages of children they've cared for, the length of previous placements, and the type of families they’ve worked with.

2. What do you enjoy most about being a nanny?

This question helps you understand their passion, motivations, and whether they genuinely enjoy working with children.

3. How would you handle a typical day with my child?

Listen for structure, creativity, and a sense of calm confidence. Bonus if they tailor their answer to your child's age and personality.

4. How do you approach discipline?

This is a vital area where values should align. Look for consistency, kindness, and the ability to set healthy boundaries.

5. What would you do in case of an emergency?

Whether it’s a fall, fever, or choking incident, a good nanny will have a clear plan. Ideally, they are first aid trained and stay calm under pressure.

6. Are you comfortable preparing meals, helping with homework, or doing nursery duties?

Clarify your expectations and ensure the nanny is open to them — every family’s needs are different.

7. How do you support children’s learning and development?

Look for examples: reading stories, sensory play, outdoor activities, or encouraging independence through play-based learning.

8. Have you ever had to deal with a difficult situation with a parent? How did you handle it?

Professionalism and open communication are key. A great nanny knows how to handle feedback and maintain healthy boundaries.

9. Are you flexible with working hours, travel, or overnight stays if needed?

If your family occasionally needs flexibility, now is the time to ask.

10. Do you have any questions for us?

A thoughtful nanny will ask about your child, routines, expectations — this shows genuine interest and professionalism.

Final Thoughts

The nanny interview is more than just a formality — it’s a conversation that helps both sides see if there’s a great match. Trust your instincts, listen carefully, and look for both skills and chemistry.

At Elisa’s London Nannies, we take the time to match you with experienced, carefully screened nannies who already meet high standards — so you're starting from a place of trust.

Need help finding the right nanny for your family?
Contact us today to speak with Eliza directly — we’re here to support you every step of the way.